Why arn't poledancers considered the same as girls who flirt with boys to get drinks as fun to control boys?
Other then stepping it up...
ie more flirting for higher rewards
What's the difference between girls who think its fun to flirt in nightclubs so guys think they like them and try and impress them getting them drinks then leaving it at that.?
When the girls can afford the drinks themselves but think its fun.
Both are controling guys with their sexuality in an environment of music.
Moral wise surely the pole dancers have better morals as not hurting the boys who get their hopes up thinking this girl may actually like them but end up feeling used and rejected yet again.
Both involve music, smoke machine, lighitng, stages, dancing, flirting, and guys usuing girlie powers to exploit guys.
How is it immoral to dance and chage your clotes like tyou do each day, keeping fit %26amp; healthy
Surely the only sexist bit is lack or male strip joints 4 girlsWhy arn't poledancers considered the same as girls who flirt with boys to get drinks as fun to control boys?
Its the men not the women.Why arn't poledancers considered the same as girls who flirt with boys to get drinks as fun to control boys?
men who pay to watch pole dancers are the same as men who buy women drinks hoping to get her into bed.
think ur looking in wrong places for girls?
i wud only buy the lady one drink, after that shes being checky, equal rights and all that, why cant ladys buy the man a drink!!
They are the same.
This is a very profound question. And I think you are bang smack correct.
Both involve an element of selling yourself out for a buck.
Maybe the poledancers are morally superior in some respects- they are honest about what they are doing. The girls getting drinks are users
I think we should draft something for the UN on this
Men who watch poledancers know full well that the girls on stage are employed to look sexy and that they have no chance of success with them. The girls are doing that job only because it pays well, and that is because it involves demeaning yourself.
There are no poledancers for women because women don't exploit men. They prefer mature loving relationships based on respect and equality.
GUYS. I want you to take a pen and jot this down. Guys who buy girl drinks at a club are TOOLS. Let me repeat this. GUYS WHO BUY GIRLS DRINKS AT A CLUB OR BAR ARE TOOLBOXES.
Why? Because these guys are chumps who are deficient in PERSONALITY and CANT CARRY A CONVERSATION and so since they have nothing else to offer, they offer the one commodity they can scrape together. Drinks. They figure the only even remote chance they have of having a conversation with a girl is by buying them drinks. Girls more then happily accept the drinks and pretend to listen to them drone on until they're done with their drinks and bounce. I don't blame girls one bit. DONT BECOME ONE OF THEM.
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Well obviously some guys like you do consider them the same! If you want to go out to a club and dance then you have the choice of whether or not to buy girls drinks. If you want to really get to know girls with the possibility of building a lasting relationship then you probably would do better to get out of the clubs!
The difference is quite clear, Women who flirt in bars for drinks attention etc are out for fun and possible some out of hours R %26amp; R,
Women who are Pole Dancers are often very talented dancers or even career women, the difference is that Pole dancing is a job, they are there to earn a living, to pay bills and in a reputable club they know that they are safe to do so, whereas in a night club they could be putting themselves at risk.
The Pole dancer has a totally detatched approach they are there purely as entertainment and really want only the tips they know that men are there to give, and the men have made a decision to go to that bar. The men can pay watch and go home. The men go there with no expectations except to watch a show.
In a club the women are out to get attention, they are playing to see how much thay can get out of you, looking for a relationship or just a one night stand basically some fun, but then isnt that what the men are there for too.
The 2 situations are quite different, I would say I have the greatest admiration for the Pole Dancer takes a lot more nerve, talent and determination to do that than to hang out in a bar.
As for the Morals, who is to judge in this day and age, but I have to agree with the asker on this one.
well i like to flirt and if a guy buys me a drink ill accept. Its like a guy he sees how many girls he can hook up with in one night. Flirting is fun and add alcohol and its a real treat theres nothing wrong with either one of ur statements. Pole dancing is a little bit more sexual then accepting a drink of a guy. so thts the difference. But they are both morally fine who cares what u do as long as ur having fun!
It's all a trick darling we let you think you are in control, you buy more drinks cos you hope you will get us into bed the drunker we get, so both parties are willing to exploit, Best man wins or in my case woman, And to answer your question good luck to the pole dancers if men weren't so sexually frustrated they would have no business, I don't class them any different to a girl trying to get a drink, we all realise mens weakness's SEX ! x
In this household they are, Anyone, whether ';staff'; or punters who go to these places have the same between their ears as you do between your lines - a lot of wasted space.
Because they just aren't
Girls who flirt for drinks are BELOW pole dancers. At least the dancers have the brains and guts to admit that they are using sex for rewards.
I'm not quite sure what your question was but I thought I would point something out. Poledancing is a job. It's as simple as that. It may not be a great job but it is a job that pays and sometimes thats all a girl can get. Whatever she does is acting, pure and simple, in order to get money because it is her job!! Girls who flirt with guys JUST to get drinks are, in my opinion, just acting slutty.
Dude try the supermarket.
Yawn!
